Entries from July 2009

July 31, 2009

My newest talking piece, a gift that shows some people really “get” Restorative Justice.

I got a new talking piece last night.  It came with a wonderful explanation.

My newest talking piece

As it was presented to me, the giver said:  “It has all kinds of colors, a variety, like people, so it shows everyone is included.  You can bring things back together with stitching.”  He ran his finger along the seam of [...]

July 30, 2009

Lesson from a Restorative Justice Conference “Once you cut down a tree, you can’t put it back”

In typical Restorative Justice fashion, when Circle is going well stories emerge.  Stories that may previously only been events or experiences are tranformed into meaningful life lessons for everyone in the Circle.
Yesterday we had a Grandparent in the Circle.  He spoke about raising children and having faith they would turn out ok.  Faith was the [...]

July 29, 2009

“Wow, that’s really brave!” response to learning about Restorative Justice

I had a new visitor to the Restorative Justice Center.  She was dropping off some brochures for another agency.  I was happy to have them, we just got a new brochure rack.  We chatted about her project, then she asked “what do you do here?  I don’t know what Restorative Justice is”.
I explained it’s a [...]

July 28, 2009

On the Road Together: Safe Teen Driving Circles engaging law enforcement

Written for the upcoming book: On the Road Together: Safe Teen Driving Circles.
At SCVRJP as part of a Driver Improvement Class, which is a diversion course for traffice violation, a Safe Teen Driving Circle is held and a River Falls Police Officer is part of the Circle process.  The only difference between this class and [...]

July 28, 2009

Can I admit this . . . Restorative Justice Volunteer Facilitators are hard to maintain.

We have a blessing at SCVRJP, our conferencing case referrals for June, more than what we’ve had January – thru May.  This has forced me to get volunteer facilitators to do some cases.  When we have had small numbers, I usually can cover them, I like to do it this way.  I feel I have [...]

July 27, 2009

The power of storytelling, using stories in community and in connecting.

Stories are the most basic tool for connecting us to one another.  Research shows that storytelling not only engages all the senses, it triggers activity on both the left and the right sides of the brain.  Because stories elicit whole brain/whole body responses, they are far move likely than other kinds of writing to evoke [...]

July 26, 2009

Making a personal committment to challenge myself and change.

I have decided to do a 30 day Bikram challenge.  That means in 30 days, 30 sessions of Bikram Yoga.
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I wrote an earlier post about Bikram.  How much I am really, really liking it.  I started this post on July 20 and right this moment it is July [...]

July 25, 2009

If you really want to make a difference, work on your work ethic. Make your work your purpose.

My daughter and I had the airport shuttle all to ourselves.  The driver’s name was Bo.  My daughter had finally stopped giving me dirty looks for conversing with our drivers. 
We had a shuttle driver on the way to the hotel and three cab drivers while visiting Boise.  She was used to me practicing conversation skills, [...]

July 23, 2009

How related are belonging and structure? Restoratively, maybe one in the same?

I was speaking with Linda Baker, author and Restorative Justice/College Campus advocate.  I was sharing about Restorative Justice Circle process and she mentioned that sounded appropriate for young people with Asperger’s.  I talked about the talking piece going around, the four stages, collectively established guidelines.  She mentioned that anxiety would go do and performance would [...]

July 22, 2009

Restorative Justice gives you more information about yourself.

At a recent Circle session  – a Victim Empathy Seminar.  I kept the Circle and attending were four young male ‘offenders’, three Moms, three community members.
A Victim Empathy Seminar is a SCVRJP service where juveniles and a parent or guardian attend with community members.  The orginal intent was to have a surrogate vicitm present.  This [...]